Archive | March, 2008

Sex and the Assumptions

27 Mar

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I just watched the Sex and The City Movie Trailer courtesy of their MySpace page, What is going on? Here is what I get from the trailer: 1) Steve cheats on Miranda (which I’m not happy about) 2) Charlotte and Harry raise their adopted daughter and Charlotte is finally pregnant (which I’m so happy about) 3) Samantha goes back to her casual sex ways (which is okay, but it seems like she is still with Smith, and cheating is not okay) 4) and it seems like Carrie & Big are on again off again (why can’t they stay together forever). Check out the trailer and tell me what you think. 

Alicia Keys Grown Up TV Debut

24 Mar

Other than her real debut on one of the greatest sitcoms of all time, The Cosby Show,  Ms. Alicia Keys will be starring in a new mini-series. Fresh Takes, presented by Dove and MTV, is about three women in their mid-twenties dealing with life and love. With Fresh Takes coming on during The Hills, I’m sure it will be a sure hit.

Q&A with author Ananda Kiamsha Madelyn Leeke

21 Mar

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After reading the summary to Love’s Troubadours-Karma Book One, I was really interested into getting to know more about the novel. An educated african-american woman whose life crashes before her, and with all that she is able to pick herself up, with the help of love from friends and learning to discover who she is. Love’s Troubadours-Karma Book One is a new novel by new author Ananda Kiamsha Madelyn Leeke, and I had the chance to have a Q & A with her on the her own life experiences and of course, her excellent novel, Love’s Troubadours-Karma Book One.

1) Have you always wanted to be a writer?
 
I realized that I was a writer when I was 11. I was good at making greeting cards and writing messages and poetry in them. It all came so easy to me. It was natural.
 
 
2) I know most writers based their novels on life experiences, Is this the same for you?
 
Some of my personal experiences are woven into fabric of Love’s Troubadours – Karma: Book One. For example, I based a lot of the external and internal architecture of my main character Karma Francois on my life and experiences such as being a daddy’s girl, debutante, Bohemian Black American Princess, sorority sister, yoga teacher, a person who uses therapy and meditation to navigate emotional challenges, urban dweller in Chocolate City DC, and graduate of a historically Black university. In addition, I included many of my personal self-care practices, spiritual beliefs, and personal interests in the lives of Karma and other characters. With all that said, I also made an effort to separate myself from Karma and the other characters. I did that by creating aspects of their lives that don’t resemble my life such as my family structure and place of origin. Karma’s father (has Louisiana and Chicago roots) dies and leaves behind some family secrets that she and her New Orleans-born, socialite mother and conservative lawyer twin sister must deal with in Oakland, California. In my own life, my father is very much alive and married to my mother in Mitchellville, Maryland. My parents were born in Indianapolis, Indiana. We don’t have any Louisiana creole roots or twin siblings. I do have three brothers.
 
 
3) I love that you included the role of the BAP (Black American Princess) into your Love’s Troubadours-Karma Book One. Are you a fan of the book?

 
Yes I am a big fan of the The BAP Handbook: The Official Guide to the Black American Princessby authors Kalyn Johnson, Tracey Lewis, Karla Lightfoot, and Ginger Wilson. The BAP Handbook was an entertaining and humorous read that shed light on the various lifestyles of Black American Princesses. I especially enjoyed the BAP Quiz. One summer evening, my mother and I were reading the book for fun and took the quiz together. We learned that she was a Butterfly BAP, a BAP who did not come from a prominent family, but discovers her “BAPness” in college. The quiz also informed us that I was a BoHo BAP, a BAP who comes from a prominent family, but is unorthodox in her style and her behavior. The next day we continued our conversation by tracing my womanline and discovered that I was the descendant of a long line of BAPs on my father’s side. His grandmother, mother, and aunts all passed the BAP quiz with flying colors. That gave us a big laugh.
 
 
4) A lot of people, especially black people, don’t like the BAP Handbook and what is portrays (which is seen as bougie or stuck up) What do you think of it?
 
First let me say that Black folks are not monolithic. Our experiences are diverse. We represent many types of people with various spiritual, personal, and political beliefs.Our education, socioeconomic class, professions, families, friends, fashion sense, travel adventures, and material trappings cannot be grouped in one or two boxes. We are unique. And it is our uniqueness that makes us so fabulous. I think the BAP Handbook celebrates the fabulousness and personal experiences of a group of African American women who are not always acknowledged or portrayed in Black and mainstream media. Some BAPs may be seen as bougie or stuck up. Other BAPs may be seen as educated, caring women who live well, manage their finances, own their own homes, support their families, love their boyfirends/girlfriends/partners/spouses, raise their children, run their own businesses, cook vegan and vegetarian food, eat at gourmet restaurants, organize wine tastings, practice yoga and meditation, visit spas on a regular basis, attend church and other spiritual events, read all types of books, listen to eclectic music, watch international and independent films, volunteer and serve their communities through their sororities and other women’s groups, purchase all types of art, attend cultural events, and travel outside of the USA and Caribbean. BAPs represent a part of Black life. They always have. I represent four generations of BAPs. And I’m pretty sure that there will be more BAPs to come after me.
 
 
5) Are there any writers that you admire and aspire to be?
 
I admire the Buddha, Lorraine Hansberry, bell hooks, Thich Nhat Hahn, Pema Chodron, James Baldwin, Alice Walker, Myrtle Filmore, Susan L. Taylor, Jane Austin, Rumi, Isabel Allende, Caroline Shola Arewa, Toni Cade Bambara, Jewel Parker Rhodes, Audre Lorde, Catherine Ponder, Don Miguel Ruiz, Tim’m West, Ntozake Shange, Ernest Holmes, Iyanla Vanzant, Kevin Powell, E. Ethelbert Miller, Toni Blackman, Mark Anthony Neal, Tricia Rose, Queen Afua, Veronica Chambers, Monique Greenwood, Zora Neale Hurston, and Langston Hughes. I aspire to be myself, an open creative spirit who surrenders her ego so that she can tell the story that Spirit wants her to tell.
 

6) Karma Francois seems to be a very fascinating character. An African-American woman whose college educated and who finds herself, within a midst of bad time in her life. This relates to what a lot of women are going through now, Did you intend to have an effect on women and their lives by writing this novel?
 
Yes. My intention was to write a book that showed how people live and learn as they love themselves and others. Healing, self-love, and self-discovery were core themes in the book. They represent areas that I think all people and especially women need to make time for and focus on.
 
 
7) You also have gay/lesbian characters in your Love’s Troubadours. By creating these characters, I would suppose you are a supporter of LGBT community. However, in the black community, homosexuality is looked down upon. Have you received any love/dislike from African-Americans because of it? And why did you want to create gay/lesbian characters for your novel?
 
I want everyone to live authentically, experience beauty and connection fully, and love freely. So that makes me a straight Black BoHo BAP who supports straight, lesbian, gay,  bisexual, and transgender people’s rights to live as they were made to be.I think there are pockets of the straight Black community that support the LGBT community. However, I don’t think these pockets are widely acknowledged in Black and mainstream media. That’s why I wanted to have a diverse cast of characters who represent all sexual orientations. It mirrors the world we all live in whether we want to admit or not. We fool ourselves when we try to act like diversity in the way that Black folks love has never existed. We have been loving and living in many ways for centuries. I celebrate this truth in my work. To date, readers have positively embraced my diverse cast of characters.
 
 
8) If Love’s Troubadours were made into a movie, who would you want casts as your main characters?
 
Right now I think Jada Pinkett Smith would make a great Karma. Rockmund Dunbar (Kenny from Soul Food on Show Time ) would be wonderful as Karma’s brother Ohnedaruth. Lynn Whitfield would be perfect for Karma’s mother. Malik Yoba would make a great Symon.
 
 
9) Are there any books that are your all time must reads (other than Love’s Troubadours)?
 
Yes. I love books. My list is long: Opening to Spirit: Contacting the Healing Power of the Chakras and Honouring African Spirituality by Caroline Shola Arewa, Confirmation edited by Khephra Burns and Susan L. Taylor, Chakra Mantras by Thomas Ashley-Farrand, True Love by Thich Nhat Hahn, Communion by bell hooks, What Your Mother Never Told You About Sex by Hilda Hutchinson, The Life and Art of Lois Mailou Jones by Tritobia Hayes Benjamin, Sexopedia by Anne Hooper, Amalia Amaki: Boxes, Buttons, and the Blues by Andrea D. Barnwell, Gloria Wade Gayles, and Leslie King-Hammond, In Search of Our Mother’s Gardens by Alice Walker, Daughters of Africa edited by Margaret Busby, The BAP Handbook: The Official Guide to the Black American Princess by Kalyn Johnson, Tracey Lewis, Karla Lightfoot, and Ginger Wilson, Red Dirt Revival: A Poetic Memoir in 6 Breaths by Tim’m West, The New Black Man by Mark Anthony Neal, Intimacy edited by Robert Fleming, A Love Noire by Erica Simone Turnipseed, Cane River by Latita Tademy, We Real Cool by bell hooks, Nappy Edges by Ntozake Shange, Assata by Assata Shakur, Remembered Raptured by bell hooks, The Essential Rumi – Translation by Coleman Barks, Dreaming Me by Jan Willis, and OM Yoga: A Guide to Daily Practice by Cyndi Lee.

Be sure to check out her website for Love’s Troubadours’s, visit her youtube page to get a feel for what the story is about, and get your own copy.

Jennifer Lopez & Twins

20 Mar

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Today, People Magazine has just released the cover of its new issue, featuring Jennifer Lopez and her new twins ( Max & Emme). Its reported that She was paid 6 million dollars for this photo-shoot. Congratulations to Jennifer and her hubby Marc Anthony (I hope that 6 Million will go to their children’s college education fund LOL).

Jay-Z “I Know”

17 Mar

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Yes, that’s Zoe Kravitz, Lenny Kravitz daughter, making her music video debut in Jay-Z’s new video, “I Know”. I think the video is about a young woman who is into drugs and it shows the effects it has on her, while the song seems to mean, only telling the story of the addicted and Jay-Z (who is not even featured in the video).

Its a Girl!!!!

17 Mar

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If you haven’t heard already, Ms. Halle Berry has given birth to her first child, and its a girl, Nahla Ariela Aubry. Another example of a woman who has defeated the odds in  career success and  showing that women can have their cake and eat it too.Throughout her pregnancy she has seemed happy and with good spirits, Congratulations to Halle and her boyfriend, Gabriel.

Women’s History Month

3 Mar

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Now, I know you know that March is the official month for Women’s History Month. This month is to appreciate women, their struggles and victories, from getting the right to vote to trying to end sexual harassment and/or discrimination in the workplace. Like Black History Month, if you’re a college student, be sure to see what your campus is planning for Women’s History Month and see what the departments of Women’s Studies or Gender Studies have to offer. As well as the local library and museum.

For example, Rutgers-Newark already have  several events planned for Women’s History Month, as well as Rutgers-Camden, and Rutgers-New Brunswick and be sure to check out the departments of women’s studies at Rutgers in Newark and New Brunswick. And check out these websites as well: Radical Women, Feministing, National Women’s Health Center and Ween.

What should be the Theme to Women’s History Month (and women in general)

3 Mar

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Phenomenal Woman by Maya Angelou

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size But when I start to tell them,They think I’m telling lies.I say,It’s in the reach of my arms The span of my hips, The stride of my step, The curl of my lips. I’m a woman Phenomenally.Phenomenal woman,That’s me.

I walk into a room Just as cool as you please, And to a man,The fellows stand or Fall down on their knees.Then they swarm around me, A hive of honey bees.I say,It’s the fire in my eyes, And the flash of my teeth,The swing in my waist, And the joy in my feet.I’m a woman Phenomenally.Phenomenal woman,That’s me.

Men themselves have wondered What they see in me.They try so much But they can’t touch My inner mystery.When I try to show them They say they still can’t see.I say,It’s in the arch of my back, The sun of my smile,The ride of my breasts,The grace of my style.I’m a woman Phenomenally.Phenomenal woman,That’s me.

Now you understand Just why my head’s not bowed.I don’t shout or jump about Or have to talk real loud.When you see me passing It ought to make you proud.I say,It’s in the click of my heels,The bend of my hair, the palm of my hand, The need of my care,’Cause I’m a woman Phenomenally.Phenomenal woman, That’s me.